If that preference for white women is so strong that they’ll completely and totally ignore black women in the process, that’s dating with blinders, and vice versa. Both bother me more than a bit, but hey…as long as the two participants are content with each other, I can’t really say I’m comfortable making it my business to confront either group of men/women. Both extremes are prejudicial, however, and frankly, you’ve severely limited yourself in any possible search for someone compatible.

To make things worse, the acquaintances I knew with eyes strictly for white women would often become visibly irritated with me, simply because I refused to put those same silly blinders on. Why, lol???

It irritated me because even though I was dating a black woman (one whom I later married, btw), I had absolutely no qualms with dating a white woman. Hell, the girlfriend prior to my future wife had been white, and had she not been from a family completely opposed to her dating black men, I could’ve just as easily seen myself with her many years later.